So, finally, I'm getting around to posting on this blog. Given that we have finally called and begun the process of getting firstborn into
The Listening Program, it's only fitting that I begin marking the journey we are about to take.
Just some info on firstborn. He was born in the end of 1996. So at the time of this writing, he is 8 yrs old. His diagnosis was made in spring 2004. His diagnosis was Sensory Integration Dysfunction (defensive). Primarily, he just doesn't like the feel of things.
Note Added from Therapist Lady. Although there isn't yet a diagnosis for sensory integration problems, there is research currently being done to get one approved for a diagnosis code. It will be called Sensory Processing Disorder. Check on the websit of The Spiral Foundation (non-profit dedicated to research and education related to sensory processing disorders) at OTA Watertown www.spiralfoundation.org Unlike most DSI patients though, firstborn did not like people to know he was different. So, he covered up most of his issue leaving Mom and Dad quite clueless as to what was going on.
The one area Firstborn couldn't cover up was in the auditory processing area. While Firstborn's vocabulary is quite advanced and once some speech issues were cleared up, his ability to follow verbal directions lags way behind his ability to follow both written and visual directions.
He has always been quite proficient at Legos, but he can't follow the simplest verbal directions at home or at school.
Staying up late can leave Firstborn in a really bad state. He has an even harder time following directions, cries easily and generally can't function in the world.
Another issue we have with Firstborn is volume. He has one. Loud! He has a hard time controlling his voice in different situations and he often makes noises while playing. He seems unconscious of the noise. It is almost as if he is self stimulating with noise.
Transitions can be hard for him if he is leavng something he likes to do. He will often have a really awful time at an outing because he had to leave some form of play that he liked and he is hyper-focusing on what he left instead of thinking about what he is involved with now. Likewise, hyperfocus can affect his experience if he is convinced that something will happen on an outing and it doesn't. Say, he thinks he is going to be able to play yu-gi-oh at a playdate and he never gets the chance to. He will just hyper-focus on yu-gi-oh instead of having a good time at what he is doing.
Physically, Firstborn seems to have good gross motor skills, but bad coordination. In fact, he is very coordinated. He has a hard time reconciling his sensory input and knowing what to do with it. For example, when running across a room with various mats of different density, he would fall because he didn't know how to react to the changes in density and therefore changes in cushion.
He often looks uncoordinated in Karate class unless a teacher can spend the time placing him in the correct positions. Once he has physically been shown how to do a move, he can reproduce it on his own with great skill.
So in this blog, we will talk about our experiences in The Listening Program and try to document little changes we see so that we can keep track of them. I do expect the changes to be so gradual that they will not be noticeable unless we document them this way.